The Ruby Wedding of John & Shirley
Welcome
On behalf of John and Shirley I would like to give you a very warm welcome to this special occasion - the ruby wedding celebration of John and Shirley.
And today we want to rejoice with John and Shirley as they celebrate 40 years together and also renew their vows together in the presence of God.
Prayer
Father we thank you for this special day, we thank you for John and Shirley and all the years they have enjoyed together as husband and wife and on this special occasion we want to ask Holy Spirit that your presence will here and that your hand of blessing will be on this time.
Ceremony
It is good on these occasions to remember that in his lifetime Jesus attended weddings, and shared in the joy of the day. And by His Holy Spirit he is with us now.
Scripture teaches that:
¶ Marriage is a gift of God in creation and a means of grace; a holy mystery in which man and woman become one flesh. It is God's purpose that as a husband and wife lovingly give themselves to each other throughout their lives, they shall be united in that love as Christ united with his church.
¶ Marriage is given, that the husband and wife may comfort and help each other, living faithfully together in all of life's circumstance.
¶ In marriage husband and wife belong to one another, and they have a new life together in the community.
And 40 years ago John and Shirley you joined your lives together in marriage.
You both made vows to one another and exchanged rings as a sign of the covenant you were entering into.
Over the years God has blessed you with children and grandchildren - children who love you and respect you.
You are also loved and appreciated much by many people in your church and in this community. And you have a great passion to serve God together and love and influence many people's lives.
Over the years you have also learned the meaning of the words "and the two shall become one". As you have gone through many experiences - times of joy and times of sadness, times of trial and struggle, God has taught you many things about love and grace and forgiveness.
And now 40 years later you have chosen to celebrate that relationship but also to renew your vows to one another as husband and wife.
Renewal of Vows
As you celebrate here today, and reflect back over the years, do you now wish to publicly renew the vows you took?
Answer: WE DO
GROOM TO REPEAT
John - will you continue to love Shirley as your wife and live in this marriage together? I WILLDo you reaffirm your love for her, and will you love, honour and cherish her in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, for better or worse and forsaking all others be faithful to her as long as you both shall live? I DO
BRIDE TO REPEAT
Shirley - will you continue to love John as your husband and live in this marriage together? I WILLDo you reaffirm your love for him, and will you love, honour and cherish him in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, for better or worse and forsaking all others be faithful to him as long as you both shall live? I DO
Rings
On your wedding day John and Shirley you also exchanged rings as a symbol of the covenant you were entering into. These rings serve as a reminder of your commitment to live in love, unity and happiness.
(PLEASE JOIN HANDS TOGETHER)
John to Repeat
I wear this ring you placed on my hand as a symbol of my love and commitment to you.Shirley to Repeat
I wear this ring you placed on my hand as a symbol of my love and commitment to youPronouncement
Before God and this company of people, John & Shirley, today you have renewed the promises and vows you made to each other on your wedding day.
It is with great joy that I conclude this ceremony of renewal of vows that binds you together in love and husband and wife.
Therefore, I proclaim:
'That which God has joined together, let not man divide'
Brief Words - Ian - based on 1 Corinthians 13
Love endures and is kind. Love is not envious or jealous
Love wants not for itself
Love is not puffed up, nor does it behave wrongly
Love seeks not for it's own
Love is not easily provoked
Love is not rude
Love thinks No evil
Love does not rejoice in wrong, but dwells in the truth
Love bears all things, believes all things, endures all things, and love never fails.
Love wants not for itself
Love is not puffed up, nor does it behave wrongly
Love seeks not for it's own
Love is not easily provoked
Love is not rude
Love thinks No evil
Love does not rejoice in wrong, but dwells in the truth
Love bears all things, believes all things, endures all things, and love never fails.
Prayers - Selected Guests
Julie Nundy
Brian Miller
Pam Miller
Margaret Farrant
John Hearson